dinsdag 25 oktober 2016

The breaker of Joyful moments

Hey what's up? You know, sometimes you know something isn't the way you think it is, but you like the idea of living in denial? Well this is a story about how the society wants you to stop doing that. Stop living in denial an start facing the facts. The breaker of Joyful moments.

First subject I want to start with is money. The reason I start with this is because we have been living in a world that money is a requirement to everybody. Whatever you need or whatever you want cost money. Think about it for a second. Even when you think you got it for free, it is at someone else's cost.  I know you thinking now " what if I hunt my own food or create my own stuff?".  Well, you still need something to start with, and that cost money too. Even the air you breathe or the soil you want to plant on cost money. Are you getting my point now? This is the society ruined your living in denial idea. But screw it right? Ignorance is bliss they say. Too bad someone will punch you in the face with the facts and send your blissful moment to oblivion. Friends are the best source to get this punch from.

The next thing is friendship. Nowadays you can have tons of friends on social media and in real life. Just the idea of having many friends is wonderful. Some would rather have a million friends than a million dollars. I think this is because money can't buy you happiness. I know someone will think " I know a lot of people and have a few true friends ". Well I agree with that thought, and I know about the "acquaintances" , friend, best friends, BFF's and soulmates group association. Wonderful thing if everyone know their place in that group.  A friend of mine made a vlog about types of friends., you should check it out.  You know the type of friend that want to befriend everyone and no one want to really befriend this person? Well that person is living in denial. They know it's not possible to befriend everyone, but they still want to do it anyway. Just like I'm doing right now, they will find someone or something that will let them face the facts. Furthermore, at some point in life you will get tired chasing people. Some friends will stay and some will fade.

Well this whole thing is just the way I see it and there is people out there that sees it differently. Here is another thing that society has to stick their nose in it every time. Love. For those who firmly believe that there is no such thing as love, I pity you for living on this planet. Because every where you go you will find people talking, singing, writing, reading, filming or painting about it. I mean if such thing doesn't exist, why spend so much attention? Just let me live in denial, ok? 

To make a choice between "Yes" or "No" can be difficult. But one can still choose to let the question unanswered. What bothers me is that at some point your friends or the society will influence you that much, that you will give a answer. Even though you liked the unanswered question, and hoped that the question would disappear in time. Well there's an explanation for everything, so why?

How about this, next time you are going to prove something, take a second and think about it... Are you a joy breaker? Trust gets you killed, love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated. Oh what a wonderful world we live in.

Just some thoughts I had ready to be broken, like a light-bulb falling on a armed mousetrap.

maandag 20 juni 2016

The silent screams

I need help ....
I need help with stuff in my life
I need help with setting things straight
I need help to lessen this weight
I'm screaming "please help me with this strife"

I need help with being optimistic
So I can stop thinking that I failed
I need help with being realistic
So I can stop thinking that I have prevailed

Sometimes I need help with crossing the road
Other times I need help with asking for aid
I need help with all the stuff that needs to be paid.
I need help to accomplish all these things that I vowed

There are voices in my head screaming for help
There are voices around screaming the same
Can nobody hear all this cries for help?
The world need help, not someone to blame

In silent I scream so nobody will hear
Even when they ask, I won’t tell them my fear
With a smile on my face, I am struggling within
Helping others around to cover their sin

It is easier to help, then it is to ask
I can get a lot of things with just a mask
But not certainty to overcome this doubt
Isn’t this what the world is all about?

I need help to stay in touch
I need help to let go
I need help to let others know,
That in my life they are needed much

I need help with what I got
So I can help others find what they have not
Maybe I need just the help of God
To lessen all the problems that I've caught

The silent screams are spreading
I will not ask for helping
Someone will see that I need it
And will help me before I break

I need help from someone close
I need help with a prose
I need help to end this silent screams
I need help to start accomplishing dreams

maandag 16 mei 2016


Inspiration. Where do you get it? This is the topic I want to write about today. As you may have noticed, it is taking me a long time before I blog again. Well the thing is between now and then, I didn’t have inspiration to write anything. But today I do have! Isn’t that great readers? I'm back!

So where do I get my inspiration from? This might be a bit awkward, but no one will ever guess where the inspiration to write this blog came from. Nope, it is not from reading an article or book about inspiration. Nope, it not a movie that I just watched. Yes, it is when I was taking a shower. Odd right? I guess there must be a study out there which shows that this is not that odd. But do I always get my inspiration to write under the shower? The answer to that is obviously a fat NO! I often feel inspired after reading a friends blog. A very talented blogger and quite a story teller. As for me, I am not much of a story teller... well until I get inspired. Yes, sometimes I do have the fantasy to even write a fiction story. Other times I get inspired by the problems I come across in my daily life. There is many things that can inspire me to write about, some of them are quite awkward and funny. For example, sitting on the toilet getting shitty inspiration. Can you smell it? But the thing of inspiration is that it doesn’t last very long. Well for me it doesn’t. It always last like 40 minutes to an hour, after that I get distracted and inspiration will take a vacation. That's a bummer. Because of this it might take a long time before I get inspired again. Well that was a lie, I do get inspired more often than you think, but I do get distracted just as often. That's also a bummer isn’t it? For those moment I can keep the distraction away and keep on writing, you will get a blog from me to read. Yeeey! Sometimes I get inspired when I reflect on myself, my goals and my past. Of the lessons I learned or want to learn about myself or others.
Inspiration is quite a thing, a very beautiful skill of the mind and soul. It just hits you and go off as it please. But will create beautiful things while it is there. We should just let it be.

“What's meant to be will always find a way” ― Trisha Yearwood

I wonder what get you inspired. Inspired to do anything, it doesn’t have to be writing. I know some very talented people that makes music or mixes, paint something, dances or make a choreography, cook something or prepare a cocktail. Leave a comment let us know where or what gets you inspired.

For me this is the end of my inspiration session without distraction. I thank you very much for reading and also if you left any feedbacks or comment.

And as always I have to finish with style!

Remember to be inspired, because you're awesome like that. (B.Y.A.L.T.)